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Notes for Muslims
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For Muslims: China has a native Muslim community (Hui 回族). Mosques and halal food exist in most major cities. Your religious observance will be respected when stated calmly.
Note: Personal prayer at your accommodation or workplace is unrestricted. Organised group religious gatherings outside licensed mosques require prior approval under Chinese laws governing religious assemblies.
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Greetings & Communication
✓ Do
- ✓Nod or shake hands — the standard greeting with strangers
- ✓Use title + family name (Mr./Ms. Liu)
- ✓Smile — warmly appreciated across all situations
✗ Don't
- ✗Don't hug or kiss — not customary with strangers
- ✗Don't use first names unless invited to
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Dining Etiquette
✓ Do
- ✓Wait for the host to invite everyone to start eating
- ✓Refill your neighbour's cup before your own
- ✓The host pays the bill — this is expected and normal
- ✓Compliment the food — hosts truly appreciate it
✗ Don't
- ✗Never stick chopsticks upright in rice — symbolises funeral rites
- ✗Don't pass food directly chopstick-to-chopstick
- ✗Don't tip in Chinese restaurants — can be awkward
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Gifts
✓ Do
- ✓Present gifts with both hands — a sign of respect
- ✓Wrap nicely — presentation matters
- ✓Lucky numbers: 6 (success), 8 (wealth), 9 (longevity)
✗ Don't
- ✗Never give a clock (表 biǎo) — implies counting down to death
- ✗Avoid pears (梨 lí) — sounds like "separation"
- ✗Avoid umbrellas (伞 sǎn) — sounds like "scatter apart"
- ✗Don't open gifts immediately in front of the giver
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Business Etiquette
✓ Do
- ✓Exchange business cards with both hands — read it carefully
- ✓Respect hierarchy — address senior members first
- ✓Patience is key — relationships (关系 guānxi) take time
✗ Don't
- ✗Don't write on someone's business card in their presence
- ✗Never embarrass anyone publicly — saving face is fundamental
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Sensitive Topics
✓ Do
- ✓Avoid political discussions with people you've just met
- ✓Stay neutral if the topic comes up naturally
✗ Don't
- ✗Don't raise political topics that have nothing to do with you
- ✗Don't compare China negatively to other countries
